They say marriages are made in heaven, but the rate at which marriages are ending these days, it would only be right to say marriages are mistakes made in heaven. What are the secrets of happy marriages? No one can say. No one can provide a perfect marriage advice. What is the recipe of a happy marriage? The ingredients are love, affection, support, trust, faith, loyalty, attraction, adjustment, attention and many more such nice abstract nouns. So we know what the ingredients are but what we don’t know the quantity. How much of romance would make your spouse happy? Flow of Romance ideas seem to dry up for most couples after marriage. This is one of the basic reasons why marriages tend to fail. Lack of romance in a marriage is just like cheese less pizza. Lack of romance leads to discontent among partners, fights, non-co operations and finally a broken marriage. Making love which is an extremely important ingredient of a marriage involves romance, passion and this leads to the ultimate pleasure men and women derive from each other’s company. But if you are irritated with your partner you would feel like trying out new ways of making love?
Lack of care and concern among couples is yet another reason as to why marriages fail. When two people, who vowed to live together, stick together in joy and happiness, in pain and sorrow start being indifferent to each other, its time they understand they need to work out their marriage problems. Mutual respect is a very important part of any healthy relationship on earth. When couples lose the respect for each other, there is nothing much left between them? You cannot respect a person, if you cannot love him. And what is a marriage without love? Excessive possessiveness leads to jealousy and arguments and acts as a slow poison for a marriage.
All women need attention, they need love and they need to hear how important they are in their partner’s life. Men must not take their wives for granted. If they find time and interest to listen to her everyday talks before marriage, it is a must that they find it after marriage as well. They have to understand the important role their wives play in their lives. Husbands who boast of being able to live without caring for their wives, without actually requiring them only increase the chances of a failed marriage. Couples before committing should go through certain pre marriage questions only to know each other better. The questions could be if they are happy, if they really want to get married. They should try to know about each other’s thoughts of having children, about starting a family, about each other’s dreams and goals, feelings aspirations. All these just might help you save your marriage.
Jemal Jelil has been married for over a decade, and has gone from miserably married to verily happily married. Find out his secret to a happy marriage when you sign up for his “Magnetism Method” course while it’s still available at http://www.happy-marriage-for-men.com/
